Sonali Kothari Sonali Kothari

My life seemed good on paper. Everything looks perfect from the other side. I have a car, a dream home, and a good relationship. But then, nothing was going as I had expected. I couldn’t stop myself from being granted by others. My work was unappreciated. My presence was neglected. I lost “the real me”. It has stolen the smile on my face but couldn’t steal the ambition from my heart.

The only thing that kept me going was my belief that “this can’t be the end of my story. There must be a meaning behind my existence. Universe didn’t send me to the earth without reason.” The storm of questions couldn’t stop- “Who am I as an individual? What is my identity? Am I living my life to the fullest using my full potential? 

Is this the legacy I want to leave behind?”

The answer was “NO”. So how do I want to be remembered? Again I was blank, not knowing the answer.

I decided to give it a try and I walked on whatever path I could see. I started to conduct classes such as baking, art making & jewelry designing. I became a designer and an entrepreneur in Indian Handicrafts. I became a counselor for DMIT (Dermatoglyphic Multiple Intelligence Test).

In this whole process of identity creation, I suffered a lot. Sometimes failures broke me. Sometimes circumstances hit me badly. Because I was blindly knocking on the doors without even knowing myself, my true potential. But I had chosen not to give up. 

I met with a Master coach named Mrs. Smitaa Nair who showed me multiple doors of possibilities to accomplish my dreams. She introduced me to the great man, my mentor Mr.Arfeen Khan, the man who has transformed 6 million plus lives, in 49 countries and I became a life coach.

Still, my ups and downs didn’t end. I was unaware of the fact that the reality that I have created was not overnight. Therefore the results of the transformation I was expecting couldn’t happen overnight. My situation was like running on a treadmill -I was trying but unable to move ahead. This time, the pain was so intense because somewhere my patience level was now about to end.

Finally, my prayers were heard by Universe & I met with an outstanding Coach – Mr. David Nair. I found the opportunity to enter a new door – The priceless program of Mr. Nair – Mental Resilience Mastery.

The foundation of his program – Faith, commitment & discipline, brought a drastic change in me. I found the space to nurture, and evolve. He implanted the practices in me until it became second nature. I learned the true art of living an extraordinary life by being resilient. He showed faith in me more than I had in myself and I became UNSTOPPABLE

In the process of being the best version of myself, I realized that many women are compromising on their dreams, for one reason or another. Again my heart didn’t allow me to sit back feeling sad about them. After all, I have gone through the same pain they are facing currently. And I made a remarkable choice to help them live the life they deserve and dream of.

The burning desire to help other women to build their identity led me to be the light for them, and this gave birth to Dreamlife Designer Sonali Kothari.